According to statistics, fifty-two percent of marriages fail. This is such a big number and being part of this unfortunate percentage of the world’s population is very troubling. Thus, to avoid all the problems that can be brought about by failing marriages, you have to be sure of your partner during your dating and romance. You have to be sure regarding what you really want in a partner, and also the traits or characteristics that you want to avoid.
Personalities vary among each individual. Thus, you have to know the other person better before making any decisions. You have to take into account his different practices or hobbies, what values he has instilled in his daily living, or how he grooms himself, and also other things you think are significant for your dating and romance decision-making. Do not just focus on his or her physical appearance because beauty is just skin-deep.
For instance, that classmate you used to laugh about back in your high school days could be the sweetest partner you have ever had, if only you do not prioritize physical attributes and think about the kind of person he or she is, and how he or she treats you.
Also, you have to be yourself. Do not pretend to be the likes of someone else. If you are just a simple person who would rather take a stroll down the shore, kick the sand, enjoy the sunset, then so be it. You do not have to pretend that you are someone who is on top of the world playing other people like chess pieces. If he or she does not like you just the way you are, then he or she does not deserve you.
Of course, you have to be well-groomed during your dating and romance activities. You can’t just waltz into someone else’s life when you look like you have been run over by a dozen garbage trucks. However, this does not mean to say that you have to be all sparkly with your accessories, or wear the most expensive suits among the most expensive. This just means to say that if you are really intent on catching the eye of Mr. or Ms. Right, then you must not play dress-up like it's Halloween night or else you will scare him or her off.
You must also not put on too much make-up. For men, putting on the littlest of make-up is fine, but applying the full rainbow of colors will make you look like a dummy and all you would probably need is a ventriloquist to get your act going. For women, applying too much face color is a common mistake. Thus, this has to be avoided because your potential Mr. Right might like your painted face and not your natural one. So just put on mild make-up, enough to make you look alive and blooming.
That person who sits across from you in the train with the thickest eyeglasses you have ever seen and enough metal on his or her teeth to make another life-size figure of Ironman could be the person you have long been waiting for. Thus, you must not act on what has been stereotyped in your head. If you see someone who sits on a bench, all alone, reading a book as thick as the telephone directory, this does not mean that he or she has been deleted from your potential dating and romance Mr. or Ms. Right list.
Sitting on your office desk all day, chewing the ends of your pens, will definitely not take you anywhere. If you really want to meet your Mr. or Ms. Right, you have to go out and show yourself to the world. And when you do, do not forget to have a great time
In a crowd, when you laugh, and you better be sure that it is for some good reason or else it is off to the asylum for you, others will laugh with you. In fact, this kind of situation beats most pick-up lines there are. This will trigger an open conversation between you and your potential Mr. or Ms. Right. This will prove just how much of a happy person you are, which, in turn, is a good trait and is very attractive in an individual.
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